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Where is your relationship actually strong?

Twenty one questions across seven parts of a relationship: communication, emotional connection, conflict and repair, affection, intimacy, shared habits and how satisfied you feel. At the end you get a plain description of each one and a single thing to try this week, chosen from the part with the least room in it.

  • CommunicationHow things get said, and what happens when they do.
  • Emotional connectionHow much of your inner week your partner sees.
  • Conflict and repairWhat happens after the argument, not during it.
  • AffectionThe small, frequent, everyday signals.
  • IntimacyHow the physical side is talked about, and how it lands.
  • Shared habitsThe repeated things that belong to the two of you.
  • SatisfactionHow the last month has actually felt.
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21 questions, about 5 minutes

This is relationship education, not therapy and not a diagnosis, and it describes the last few weeks rather than predicting anything. Nothing you choose is stored anywhere: your answers travel in the address of the page and nowhere else, which is also what lets you reload the result or keep the link.